Wednesday 24 April 2024

Bombay HC: Although Adultery Is Grounds For Divorce, It Can't Be A Ground To Deny Child's Custody

 The submission made on behalf of the petitioner/husband as regards the adulterous behavior of the respondent/wife, according to me, these are the allegations which are made in the marriage petition by Husband before Family Court, filed in the year 2020. The said allegation has to be proved by leading evidence before the Family Court. Therefore, based on the allegations, the doubt as to whether the custody can be given to the wife will have no bearing. There is no doubt as held by the various judgments that not a good wife is not necessarily that she is not a good mother. {Para 45}

46. In the present case as regards, the allegations made by

Husband are still to be proved. In the judgment of Vineet Gupta

Vs. Mukta Aggarwal reported in 2024 SCC Online Del 678, it has

been held that even though the allegations are proved as regards

the wife’s extra martial affair, still as far as the custody of the

minor children is concerned, in a given case, the same can be

granted to the wife.

47. Adultery is in any case a ground for divorce, however

the same can’t be a ground for not granting custody.

48. Hence, this writ petition fails. No costs.

IN THE HIGH COURT OF JUDICATURE AT BOMBAY

CIVIL APPELLATE JURISDICTION

WRIT PETITION NO.4060 OF 2024

Petitioner  V/s.  S

CORAM : RAJESH S. PATIL, J.

Dated:  19 APRIL 2024.


1. This Writ Petition is filed by the Husband, challenging

the judgment and order dated 27 February 2024, passed by the

Judge of the Family Court, Mumbai, thereby dismissing the

husband application (exhibit-147) in Divorce Petition filed by the

husband (exhibit-147) was filed by the husband seeking temporary

custody of minor daughter aged 9 years now.

2. The Petitioner (husband) and the respondent (wife)

got married on 18 February 2010. For the convenience, the

Petitioner is referred as “Husband” and Respondent is referred as

“wife”. The husband is an I.T. profession and the wife is a doctor

by profession. On 4 January 2015 daughter was born out of the

wedlock of the petitioner and respondent.

3. On 7 December 2019 as per the case of wife, she was

driven out of the matrimonial house and the custody of the

daughter was not given to her. According to the husband, the wife

on her own had left the matrimonial house.

4. A police complaint was lodged by the wife against the

husband on 2 January 2020. Thereafter, as per the case of the

wife, she and her father were assaulted by the husband, the minor

daughter was snatched.

5. On 16 January 2020 the wife lodged F.I.R. No. 15 of

2020 against the husband and his family members, under Section

498-A, 377, 354, 323, 506, 504 read with Section 34 of the Indian

Penal Code, 1860.


6. The wife on 22 January 2020 filed a complaint under

Domestic Violence Act, before the JMFC, at Boriwali. So also, an

application was filed for seeking interim custody of the minor

daughter.

7. Subsequently, on 27 January 2020 the husband filed

divorce petition under Section 13 (1) (ia) of the Hindu Marriage

Act, 1955 before the Family Court at Mumbai, against the wife. In

the month of March 2020 the pandemic started and virtually

everything was closed down. The custody of minor daughter

remained with the husband. On 1 September 2020 the police filed

“B” summary in the police complaint filed by the wife. The said

order of “B” summary was subsequently challenged via Protest

Petition by the wife. On 9 November 2020 the wife filed her

written statement as well as counter-claim in the divorce

proceedings filed by the husband before the Family Court at

Bandra Mumbai.

8. The wife thereafter made an application before the

Family Court for granting interim custody of minor daughter

during the pendency of the divorce petition filed by the husband.

And a prayer of access to minor daughter was sought. By an order

dated 12 February 2020 the Family Court, Bandra Mumbai granted

access to wife, for four days of minor daughter from 1.00 p.m. to

6.00 p.m.

9. By further order dated 18 May 2020, the Family Court,

Bandra Mumbai passed an order thereby granting virtual access of

minor daughter, from 7.00 p.m. to 8.00 p.m. on alternate days.


10. On 4 August 2020 the Family Court, Bandra Mumbai

did not grant physical access due to lock down, however, the

virtual access has granted by the Court by an order dated 18 May

2020 continued, and it was directed that the said virtual access

should be recorded.

11. The Family Court on 9 November 2020 granted

physical access of minor daughter to wife, from 14 November 2020

to 17 November 2020. The said order was passed by consent, as it

was Diwali Vacation.

12. Thereafter, on 19 December 2020 the Family Court

passed an order, with regard to Christmas Vacation, allowing the

wife to have physical vacation of minor daughter from 24

December 2020 to 1 June 2021. And so also access on 4 January

2021, on birthday of minor daughter.

13. On 6 February 2021 the Family Court Mumbai, passed

an order thereby granting weekend access of minor daughter on

2nd and 4th Friday to Sunday, of every month to the wife, and the

virtual access of alternate days, was cancelled as the husband had

objected to it on the ground that the virtual access was stressful for

the daughter.

14. Since the virtual access cancelled, the wife challenged

the order dated 6 February 2021, passed by the Family Court,

Mumbai by way of Writ Petition No.962 of 2021 before this Court.

In the meanwhile, the wife filed an application (Exhibit 83) for

grant of interim custody, before the Family Court Mumbai,

Consequently, the wife withdrew the Writ Petition No.962 of 2021,

with liberty to persue the application (Exhibit-83) before the

Family Court.

15. On 17 May 2021 the Family Court Mumbai granted

summer vacation access of daughter, to wife for the period from 18

May 2021 to 31 May 2021.

16. Thereafter, on 9 May 2022 the Family Court Mumbai

by its order rejected the interim custody application filed by the

wife, however, the summer vacation access was handed over to the

wife from 13 May 2022 to 27 May 2022. The said order passed by

the Family Court challenged by way of a Writ petition NO. 9434 of

2022 filed by the wife. After hearing of both the parties, this Court

by its order dated 16 December 2022, allowed the Writ Petition of

the wife, thereby remanding the matter back to the Family Court,

to decide the interim custody application (exhibit-83) afresh.

17. On remand, the Family Court Bandra Mumbai, heard

both the parties and by its order dated 9 February 2023, granted

interim custody of daughter, to the wife, and every weekend

physical access to the husband, with alternate day

virtual/telephonically access to the husband. The said order dated

9 February 2023 passed by the Family Court was challenged by the

husband by way of Writ Petition No.2048 of 2023 filed on 16

February 2023. This Court thereafter did not pass any interim

orders in Writ Petition No.2048 of 2023, and when the matter was

called out on 17 February 2023 and on 24 February 2023, and the

matter was adjourned to 27 March 2023.

18. Thereafter, the husband complied with the order

passed by the Family Court and handed over the custody of the

minor daug on 24 February 2023, to the wife.

19. Thereafter, on 3 March 2023 on the submissions of

advocate appearing for the husband, the papers and proceedings

were moved in the chambers of this Court. So also, as request

made to this Court for interviewing the minor daughter on the

grounds that she might commit suicide was rejected by this Court.

20. Again on 28 March 2023 the oral application was made

on behalf of the husband that the minor daughter should be

interviewed. Again this Court rejected such an application made on

behalf of the husband. The husband thereafter preferred an

interim application for seeking a prayer that the minor daughter

should be interviewed. Thereafter, on the weekend when minor

daughter had meet the husband and was supposed to go back to

the wife on 25 June 2023, she did not go back to the wife’s home.

On 26 June 2023 the Writ Petition No.2048 of 2023 was

mentioned before this Court when minor daughter was present in

the Court hall. This Court interviewed the minor daughter in

chamber. Thereafter, the Writ Petition no.2048 of 2023 was taken

up for hearing by this Court and by its order dated 21 July 2023,

this Court dismissed the Writ Petition filed by the husband thereby

confirming the order granting the custody of minor daughter, to

the wife passed in Application (exhibit-83).

21. The custody of the minor daughter remained with the

wife from 24 February 2023 till 9 February 2024, for a period of

roughly one year.


On 9 February 2024 the minor daughter as per the

earlier order passed went to residence of the husband for weekend

access. As per the direction passed in the order, on 11 February

2024 being a Sunday she was supposed to go back to the residence

of wife, however, did not return to home of the wife.

22. On 12 February 2024 an interim application No.1587

of 2024 was preferred by the husband seeking modification of

order passed by this Court. The said interim application was

moved before me. However, since interim application sought

modification order passed by the earlier bench, the parties were

directed to approach the bench of this Court which passed the

earlier order dated 21 July 2023. By an order dated 16 February

2024 the interim application No.1587 of 2024 was disposed of,

directing the parties to approach the Family Court. The husband

thereafter approached the Family Court. The Family Court by its

order dated 27 February 2024 rejected application (Exhibit-147)

filed by the husband seeking modification.

23. Thereafter, an application was moved before this Court

on 28 February 2024 seeking continuation of protection granted in

interim application no.1587 of 2024. However, no orders were

passed on the oral request made on behalf of the husband.

24. On 29 February 2024 the present writ petition filed by

the husband and since the reasoned order passed by the Family

Court was not available, a request was made that till the time the

reasoned order is made available the interim protection be

granted. Hence, I had granted protection to the husband since the

reasoned order was not available.

25. Ultimately the reasoned order was available on 13

March 2024. Thereafter, an amendment was made to the present

writ petition by enclosing the copy of the reasoned order to the

writ petition. Counsels shortly thereafter made their submissions.

SUBMISSIONS

26. Ms. Indira Jaising, learned Senior Advocate appeared

on behalf of the husband, and made her submission :

(i) Ms. Indira Jaising, submitted that in the custody matter

what has to be seen is the best interest of the child.

(ii) Ms. Indira Jaising, submitted that email was written in

good faith by school authority to the paternal grandmother and

the husband, regarding the behavior of the minor child.

(iii) Ms. Jaising submitted that her client had not

challenged the order passed by this Court on 21 July 2023 passed

by the High Court, as her client was open to the suggestion made

by the Court, allowed to jell the child with mother. She submitted

that even after one year the child did not jell with the mother

which can be seen from the notes handed over by the child to the

school and also to one her friend to be given to her father.

(iv) Ms. Jaising submitted that the minor daughter was

suffering from dyslexia.

(v) Ms. Jaising submitted that in the impugned order there

is no discussion about the emails written by the school.


(vi) Ms. Jaising submitted that safety of the child should be

prime importance. She submitted that the order of custody is never

final.

(vii) She submitted that the report of minor daughter,

suggest the child is not comfortable in the custody of her mother.

Ms. Jaising submitted that the wife had multiple affairs. She

submitted that hence, the custody to be granted to the mother of

minor daughter, would not be proper.

(viii) Ms. Jaising submitted that the respondent (wife) is

taking advantage of the fact that the mother of the husband is a

member of political party.

(ix) Ms. Jaising pointed out the provisions section 26 of the

Hindu Marriage Act as regards the custody. She emphasized the

words “consistently” with their wishes.

(x) Ms. Jaisingh submitted that from the month of

December 2019 the husband and wife were staying separately and

except for a year the custody of the minor daughter has remained

with the husband.

(xi) Ms. Jaising referred to the Supreme Court Judgment of

Nil Ratan Kundu & Anr. V/s. Abhijit Kundu reported in (2008) 9

SCC 413 .

(xii) Ms. Jaising submitted that the writ petition deserves to

be allowed.

27. Mr. Kulkarni, learned counsel appeared on behalf of

the wife and made his submission :

(i) Mr. Kulkarni submitted that the husband has always

tried to poison the minor daughter which can be seen by at least

three documents vis a vis paragraph No.15 of the judgment and

order passed by this Court on 21 July 2023, Paragraph Nos. 1 and

3 of order dated 16 October 2022 passed by the Family court and

the Paragraph No.5 of order of the Family Court dated 6 February

2021.

(ii) Mr. Kulkarni submitted that the husband had gone to

such a extend that the daughter started repeating the words as

taught to her by husband that she has been escaped from the

custody matter, as generally mentioned “Shivaji Maharaj escaped

from the Agra Fort”.

(iii) Mr. Kulkarni also referred to paragraph No.51 of the

order dated 27 February 2024 passed by the Family Court.

(iv) Mr. Kulkarni submitted that the mother of the husband

is a big political figure in the State of Maharashtra, who was

earlier a member of Legislative Council. He submitted that the

school authorities have been influenced by the mother of the

husband which can bee seen from the emails addressed by the

school authorities to the mother of the husband and further copy

of the email being addressed to the husband. The said emails were

addressed by the school authorities to ‘madam’. He submitted that

there was no reason to school authorities to right any kind of

email’s to the Mother of the husband when the husband, who is

the father of the minor daughter was available to correspond with


(v) Mr. Kulkarni also pointed out that the emails of the

husband written by a lady called as “Neha”. He submitted that the

said lady “Neha” though according to the other side, is working as

a staff of mother of the husband, had no reasons to write emails on

behalf of the husband, at 9.00 p.m. on Sunday. He submitted this

itself shows that the said emails addressed by the husband were

actually prepared by somebody else.

(vi) Mr. Kulkarni submitted that there is no explanation as

to how alleged notes were written by the daughter, came in the

custody of the husband. He submitted that though the story is now

put up on behalf of the husband that wrote notes and gave it to

her friend and the said friend gave it to her mother who in turn

gave it to the father of the minor daughter i.e., the husband

herein. He submitted that it is highly unbelievable story, as the said

story was never put up before the Family Court. He further

submitted that who was the name of classmate of minor daughter

to whom the note was submitted, has not been disclosed, neither

name of the mother of the said classmate has been mentioned

even today. He submitted that it is highly unbelievable that minor

daughter when was granted access to the husband on weekend,

during the week days she used to write the notes to her father

petitioner herein.

(vii) Mr. Kulkarni submitted that as far as the allegations of

the wife having multiple affairs the same have to be proved by the

husband. He submitted that the generic statements made in the


Divorce Petition would not be enough to not allow the interim

custody of minor daughter aged 9 years who is about to attain

puberty.

(viii) Mr. Kulkarni submitted that there is no merits in the

Writ Petition and the same should be dismissed with cost.

ANALYSIS AND CONCLUSION :

28. This writ petition has been filed under Article 227 of

the Constitution of India, by the husband challenging an Order

passed dismissing his application filed for seeking modification of

order of interim custody of 9 year old daughter.

29. As per the order dated 9 February 2023, the Family

Court had granted custody of 9 year old daughter to the wife, who

is a doctor by profession. The said order passed by the Family

Court was challenged by husband by way of writ petition bearing

no. 2048 of 2023 in this Court. Initially after filing of the petition

when the matter was moved for urgent orders by the husband, this

Court refused to give any kind of relief to the husband.

30. Admittedly, on 24 February 2023 the custody of the

minor daughter was handed over by the husband, to the wife.

However, the husband was granted physical access of the minor

daughter on weekends and video access of alternate days. The writ

petition filed by the husband was ultimately dismissed by this

Court on 21 July, 2023. Admittedly, the said order dated 21 July,

2023 attained finality as the husband did not challenge the said

order.

31. The custody of the minor daughter remained with the

wife from 24 February 2023 till 9 February 2024, for a period of

roughly one year.

32. On 9 February 2024 the minor daughter as per the

earlier order passed went to residence of the husband for weekend

access. As per the direction passed in the order, on 11 February

2024 being a Sunday she was supposed to go back to the residence

of wife, however, daughter did not return to home of the wife.

33. Subsequently, on 12 February 2024 an interim

application was filed by the husband in disposed of, Writ Petition

No.2048 of 2023. The said interim application was disposed of by

this Court on 18 February 2024, with a liberty to approach the

Family Court for any kind of modification, however certain interim

relief were granted by this Court.

34. The husband thereafter preferred interim application

before the Family Court for modification of custody. The said

interim application for modification was dismissed by the Family

Court on 27 February 2024. The present writ petition challenges

the order dated 27 February 2024. On account of non-availability

of reasoning of Order dated 27 February 2024, the earlier

protection granted by this Court was continued.

35. By the impugned order dated 27 February 2024, the

Family Court while dismissing the application for modification,

came to the conclusion that the mother of the husband was a

politician and due to her social work, she was unable to spend

time/take care of the 9-year-old daughter. The petitioner himself

was working in an I.T. Company. So also, his brother and brother’s

wife were working as chartered accountant in a private firm.

Hence, a maid is supposed to take care of the 9 year old daughter.

As far as the wife is concerned, she is a doctor by profession, and

she has taken up a flat for residence on Leave and Licence basis

near the school of the 9 year old daughter. The mother of the wife,

who is a home-maker was available to take care of the minor

daughter along with a maid. The Family Court also held that the

academic record of the minor daughter for the last one year was

good. So also, the Court doubted as to who had written the alleged

Notes/chits. Since the 9 year old daughter was meeting the

husband on every weekend, as also the wife had doubted the

handwriting of the 9 year old daughter on the said Notes/chits. So

also, the Court had commented on the e-mails written by a lady

called as ‘Neha’ on behalf of the Husband. The Court has also come

to the conclusion that in the matter of a custody, the Court has to

see the age, sex, and child emotional, physical and mental

development along with educational development. Hence, based

on these findings, the Family Court has rejected the application of

modification of custody. Both the parties were directed by the

Family Court to follow and adhere the order below Ex.83 dated 9

February, 2023.

36. I have considered the arguments made by both the

sides. There is no doubt that both the parents are working. There

is no dispute that the mother of the husband is a political figure,

who was earlier M.L.C. As per the newspapers/magazine articles,

the mother of the husband is an aspirant of contesting upcoming

election of Lok Sabha.

37. It is a matter of record that the school authorities are

communicating with the said mother of the husband (who is the

grandmother of the 9 year old daughter) as regards the issues

pertaining to the minor daughter, apart from the parents of the

minor daughter. According to me, the school authorities have no

reasons to inform about the issues relating to the minor daughter

to the grandmother (who is a politician) when both the parents of

the minor daughter are available. So also, one cannot forget that

both the parents are well-educated and in fact the mother of the

minor daughter is a doctor by profession.

38. It is also come on record that while the Family Court

granted interim custody of the minor daughter, to the wife on 9

February, 2023, and weekend access to the husband; on 11

February, 2024, i.e. after a span of one year, the husband, was not

able to deliver back the custody of daughter to the wife. The said

act of the husband continued for a period of around seven days. In

the said seven days, the minor daughter did not attend school.

39. The academic record of the minor daughter during her

custody with her mother, was ‘good’. The school report shows that

the progress of the minor daughter was quite good during the said

period. So also, she was doing good in extracurricular activities.

40. One cannot forget that the minor daughter is only 9

year old which can be called as a pre-puberty age. The fact that

one lady called as ‘Neha’ has written letters to the wife on behalf

of Husband, submitting therein that the minor daughter is safe in

her custody, also raises an eyebrow.

41. The Family Court has doubted the handwriting on the

alleged chits written by the minor daughter. According to me, it

becomes a matter of concern when the husband has brought on

record certain chits which according to him was written by the

minor daughter on week days and which came in his custody

through a friend of the minor daughter. According to me, it is

pertinent to note that though in the week days, the daughter was

in the custody of the wife, and on weekends i.e. from Friday to

Sunday night, the daughter was granted access to the husband.

There is no explanation from the husband as to the name of the

minor daughter’s friend to whom the said alleged Notes/chits were

given by minor daughter and how her friend managed to come in

contact with the husband. It is highly unbelievable that minor

daughter used to be with her father from Friday evening to Sunday

evening, and on week-days she used to write Notes/Chits to her

father.

42. A reference was made by Ms.Jaising, learned senior

counsel to the judgment of Supreme Court in the matter of Kundu

(supra). The fact in the judgment of the Kundu (supra) was that

the matter pertains to the Guardians and Wards Act, 1890. In the

said proceedings, the mother of the minor had already died.

According to me, the custody of the minor in a Guardians and

Wards Act is on complete different footing than under the Hindu


Marriage Act. Even in Kundu (Supra), Supreme Court has laid

down principles of law that while determining the question as to

who should be given custody of a minor child, the paramount

consideration is the ‘welfare of the child’ and not rights of the

parents under a statute for the time being in force.

43. In the present proceedings, the application for custody

was initially filed by the wife under section 26 of the Hindu

Marriage Act. The Family Court considering the welfare of the

child granted custody to the wife and this Court confirmed the said

judgment and order passed by the Family Court by its order dated

21 July, 2023. After a period of one year, modification to the said

order passed by the Family Court was made by the husband. The

Family Court has rejected the said application filed by the husband

with a reasoned Order. Therefore, the fact in the judgment of

Kundu (supra) are quite different than the present proceedings.

44. In any custody matter, what Court has to see is the

welfare of the child. In the present proceedings, the child is a ‘girl’

and aged only of 9 years which is pre-puberty age. The mother of

the child is a doctor by profession who is now staying in a flat

within the close vicinity nearby the daughter’s school. The mother

of the wife who is a home-maker and is residing with the wife. The

academic record of the minor daughter during her custody with

the wife is also good. Therefore, according to me, there is no

reason or change in the circumstances that the custody should be

changed from the Wife to the Husband.

45. The submission made on behalf of the

petitioner/husband as regards the adulterous behavior of the

respondent/wife, according to me, these are the allegations which

are made in the marriage petition by Husband before Family

Court, filed in the year 2020. The said allegation has to be proved

by leading evidence before the Family Court. Therefore, based on

the allegations, the doubt as to whether the custody can be given

to the wife will have no bearing. There is no doubt as held by the

various judgments that not a good wife is not necessarily that she

is not a good mother.

46. In the present case as regards, the allegations made by

Husband are still to be proved. In the judgment of Vineet Gupta

Vs. Mukta Aggarwal reported in 2024 SCC Online Del 678, it has

been held that even though the allegations are proved as regards

the wife’s extra martial affair, still as far as the custody of the

minor children is concerned, in a given case, the same can be

granted to the wife.


47. Adultery is in any case a ground for divorce, however

the same can’t be a ground for not granting custody.

48. Hence, this writ petition fails. No costs.

49. The petitioner is directed to hand over the custody of

the minor daughter to the respondent wife by 21 April, 2024.

(RAJESH S. PATIL, J.)


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